If you believe your lady is beautiful, tell her. We know how important physicality is to ya’ll, so we could use that validation once in a while.
When your man tells you you’re beautiful, or any other compliment for that matter, ACCEPT IT. If you’ve got self esteem issues, or are too stubborn to believe him, respond with a “Do you really think so?” rather than argue with him by putting yourself down just to see if he’ll lift you back up with even more compliments. That’s just tiring. All you’re really doing is trying to convince him you’re unattractive by pointing out the “flaws” that he didn’t even realize were there. It’s not a good look.
Just had to get a thought off of my chest before I sleep. NIGHT.
“Once said, always said.
I will hold the past over your head.
I’ll speak my mind whenever I feel slighted.
I am hellbent on extracting all of my revenge.
Take heart, sweetheart, or I will take it from you.”—